People always choose to visit me at my most unorganized moments. The door bell rings as I just shampoo up my hair, the kids are screaming, toys are strewn everywhere, and the dogs are muddy, tromping through the house. It’s like the Antonio Bandares room in the movie “Four Room” The door swings open at the end of the day, Mira’s got a cigarette and a syringe, there’s a dead hooker, the room is on fire, Tessa’s got a bottle of XXX booze and The Hubster wants to know how my day was…. GAH!