We seem to be turning into a regular porn review around here at Finding Yourself. Posts about climaxing , golden showers and nudists are funneling all of Google’s dirty birdies our way and yet, here we go again right?

Toplessness is rampant in my household and I don’t know how much longer we can take it. Well, actually it wouldn’t bother me one whit if we all walked around without a stitch of clothing on (yea, less laundry). However, my more modest husband points out that our girls need to learn proper nudie etiquette and soon. I tend to agree that is moderately embarrassing when my daughter shuffles out of a public restroom with her pants around her ankles loudly demanding that I wipe her butt. And, it is equally embarrassing when she strips down where ever and when ever someone mentions the word bath. The issue I am struggling with is when to call it quits on topless romping. As it stands now I let her hang out in her undies around the house. Occasionally she wanders outside in nothing but her baby BVDs and this does not alarm me, but at 4 years old I have to wonder when it must end.

At what point do I nix the outdoor native look? Do I force her into wearing shirts all the time indoors at the same time we stop the neighborhood naked parade? How the hell do I do this without causing her to become overly body conscious? Do I wait for natural modesty to develop? She is my daughter so I worry it may never fully kick in. Seriously, I recently had to start buying pajamas because I felt I needed to start setting a non-nude example, especially now that she can exit her room and enter mine during the night. I am so nonchalant about household nudity I’ve even split a pizza with my husband and mother while I was topless (ok so I was a new nursing mom, my milk had just come in and the moving air, let alone the fabric of a shirt caused me to scream in agony). It should be fairly obvious to you dear readers with a past like that I need all the help I can get.