My computer, oh yes, it’s royally screwed. I have no idea how it ended up booting and allowing me online but considering the number of error and weird system messages, I’m fairly confident that when I try and turn this thing on tomorrow morning, it won’t work. So take a deep breath, any extended period of silence from me most likely is computer related and NOT baby related.

Sunday I hit 31 weeks and my main goal is to NOT wind up in the hospital… every pregnancy 31 weeks has been the magic “things go to crap” number where I usually get my 1st inpatient stay. I am DETERMINED not to repeat the pattern so like I said, if I’m not posting it’s because the computer went Kablooey- NOT because my girl parts did.

Oh, and if the blog disappears for a few days at some point, it’s because I need to renew my hosting and right now that has to wait. My dryer is broken, my sink is leaking and this whole computer thing is going down- hosting can’t be a priority. Thanks for hanging tight.

EDITED TO ADD*** Melanie queen of Finding Yourself design gifted me.. I am just speechless. The lights will stay on here at Finding Yourself for another month. After that it’ll be on Uncle Sam and the “tax rebate”

just so you don’t wonder or worry, I’m taking a few days off. I’m plum wore out and feeling a bit on the yucky pregnant side (acid reflux up to my ears, bad hips, short of breath, and just plain tired). I should be back at it in a few days.

I’m going to marry him!

Nuuh! I gonna marry him!

No me

Me! Me! Me! I will, not YOU!

Whoa girls. Let’s not argue with each other, and besides Daddy is already married to me.

You so silly Mama, you old. You going to die one day and then I marry Daddy.

Touche, my young daughter. Let us hope this Electra Complex phase passes quickly.

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A few side notes

Click over HERE to check out the latest recalls of children’s products due to lead paint. Wooden toys and Boy Scout badges, oh my!

Also, my free sample from HERE did indeed arrive. I encourage you to sign up and start getting your own free samples and coupons, glorious coupons.

Also some polls for you pertaining to your Finding Yourself experience, ’cause I like happy readers and feel meh about making decisions lately:

Welcome to the new Finding Yourself Despite Yourself! Drop your bags and make yourself at home. You’ll notice a few very obvious changes and a few more subtle changes. Commenting should be easier for everyone now. You’ll have to get approved initially but if things work properly, after having a comment approved your next comment should automatically post- hopefully this will not be abused.  The new commenting system also makes it so that I have the option of replying to you by email.  If YOU want to contact ME outside of the comments, that too is now easy peasy. Click on “contact” and fill out the form. It will get sent directly to my email.  Please let me know if you run into any weirdness as you navigate the site. My designer has been working her butt off to make everything purty and functional.

Also you may have noticed some new advertising on the left hand side. I promise you are going to LOVE those advertisers . In the very near future, once everything is moved and running smoothly I will be launching a Blogstravaganza party to celebrate the new digs. The lovely folks appearing on the left are sponsoring PRIZES - ooooooo ahhhhhh. You should go drool over what they are selling now as a sign of appreciation (trust me the prizes are totally worth it!)

You may have noticed things looking a bit bare and weird around here. Fear not, aliens have not taken over my URL and started abducting my side bar items and essential design elements, I’m just moving.

I’m excited, it’s like moving out of your parents house. No more big bad blogger telling me what I can and can’t do, no more blogger locking me out of the house when I miss curfew and no more mysteriously eaten by blogger posts.

Moving does have it’s sucky points too. For one, I have to convince you all to update your bookmarks, links and feeds to my new site http://findingyourself.net and I need to pick up all my garbage stuff and make it look pretty over there.

This is where YOU come in. I need badges buttons or pictures from you. Send me an email with your badge button or pic sized 100×100 along with your blog URL and I will add you to my new links pages

send them to

fidgetblogs at gmail dot com

and go check out the new site design Once the move is complete you will be automatically forwarded.